This is the place for you to embark on resolving and reconciling your inner turmoil with your true masculine nature.
NOBODY GOES THROUGH LIFE UNSCARRED.
Especially for men who have been abused (physically or sexually), abandoned, experienced violence or other significant trauma.
Being a man is tough. Not resolving wounds is more tough. They can lead to:
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Broken relationships
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Various types of addiction including substances and sexual behaviors.
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Anger dyscontrol.
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Confusion in sexuality.
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Chronic people pleasing
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An incomplete sense of self
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A life of isolation.
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Recurrent reminders of big and small traumas
Experiencing the unfinished business of these listed above or others not stated leads to either slow and gradual or quick and devastating damage to yourself and the people you love the most. But it does not have to - there is hope.
A PLACE TO DO YOUR WORK
WITHOUT GIVING UP YOUR “MAN CARD.”
As a man, RESPECT is paramount to me in my daily interactions both inside and outside the office. Part of that respect is to never shame or belittle you regardless of the circumstance of your life. I offer the opportunity to walk with you to uncover and resolve the troubled events that hinder you from living as the man you desire. I also look forward to walking with you as you journey to a place of healing.
Specialties
Individual
Standard one hour session.
This is where most fit in.
Family
Always a component of working with an adolescent boy. It may not be every session.
Intensive
A block of time is set aside for a 2-3 hour session. This is done by special request.
Group
These are arranged around a specific topic and duration. I’m always open to suggestions and ideas for topics.
Process
Let’s summon the courage to confront the parts of life we often go to great lengths to avoid.
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1We will create a foundation of safety and connection to help us identify both obvious and more subtle issues. This isn’t a one-time event; it’s an ongoing process. As we gather more data, we will examine the problems, explore patterns of difficulty, and identify additional resources.
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We will delve into the identified problems, explore the emotions they trigger, and create space for the necessary processing. This will never be done in isolation; I will be with you, bringing all my resources to support you through this process. Most of the work happens here.
Once you achieve clarity, you’ll often have a clear sense of what to do next without much input from me. That said, I may offer some suggestions to fine-tune your next steps. Every step forward will be celebrated!